FAQ | Sensual Massage

What happens during an appointment?

I will come to the agreed place at the agreed time and contact you to let you know I have arrived before knocking on the door.

I ask that you show me to the room where you want the massage to take place so that I can set up, while you get ready.

Ideally I ask that you are freshened up and ready for your massage upon my arrival if possible, I am with you for the allocated time booked, you don't want to waste that time in the shower. Have a warm shower or bath before I arrive, and wear your robe or something comfy that is quick to change out of.

You will enter the room in a towel or robe, and as I hold up a towel or sheet covering my face, you can get comfortable on the bed, before I cover you with the towel before starting your treatment.

The massage is intentionally gradual and will usually start on your back, neck, shoulders, moving down to your arms, feet, legs and working up to anything more. This helps you relax, and helps me to connect connect with you and your body.

After the treatment I will need to freshen up before I leave, I just need access to a bathroom and a towel.

I am more than happy to let myself out! You can drift off into a blissful sleep if you want to.

What if I feel uncomfortable during the massage?

You are in control at all times, and I will give you plenty of opportunity to feed back if you need me to slow down, or stop for any reason. I will not be offended or judge in any way.

If you chose to stop the massage and wish not to proceed further at any point, this is also fine.

What do you wear during a massage?

I usually wear comfortable clothes such as shorts or joggers and a t-shirt.

Can you be naked?

I will work with your personal request and can be naked or in my underwear if you feel this will enhance your experience.

Do you get aroused during a treatment?

I am human, for sensual sessions this is almost inevitable!

This is a funny question which divides people's opinions. For some, it helps them enjoy the experience more and helps them to feel less anxious or nervous, for others, treatments need to be about them and only them.

Either way makes no difference to me - if you want to know, you will know! If you don't want to know, I am able to keep it to myself.

Non-sensual massage therapy sessions are completely professional and don't have the same effects as I am focused entirely on body therapy, finding and releasing tension in your muscles.

Can I touch you?

I am comfortable with you touching me during the massage but I stress that the experience is about you and your enjoyment.

What do you look like?

I am of Asian heritage, average, slim athletic build, clean shaved, no tattoos or piercings.

How and where do you massage?

I usually perform massages on a bed, I have found that this allows a greater level of comfort, relaxation and movement than a treatment table for a sensual massage.

I now also have a professional portable massage table which I can bring and set up in whichever room you would like the treatment to take place. The bed is thoroughly cleaned between uses with antibacterial wipes and is always covered with towels when in use.

Do you have a venue where I can visit you?

I don’t have a venue but I have been asked a few times and it is something I am looking into. I can arrange and book a hotel in my name if required at your cost.

Are you discreet?

Discretion is just as important to me as it is to you, this is why it's important that you give me your full name when you fill out the contact form.

If you see me walking down the street or in a restaurant, I will not look twice in your direction, and I kindly ask that you extend the same level of discretion back to me, outside of the treatment, we are strangers.

I will not park on your driveway, even off the street if you ask, as far as your neighbours are concerned, I am just a friend who is visiting.

Beware your video doorbells (Ring) and CCTV, if you want me to visit your house and want to keep it a secret, these need to be switched off or disabled, many people forget they even have them.

Can I have a discount?

My rates are not negotiable, but please see the "Introductory Offer" tab.

Who will you visit?

I see females of all ages, body types, ethnicity and religions. If you are lucky enough to appear under the age of 25 I will require ID to prove you are at least 18.

I have medical conditions is this a problem?

Please let me know any medical conditions when we speak, allergies and sensitivities are important as this will determine which oil I use.

I am pregnant

Unfortunately I do not provide services to ladies at any stage of pregnancy, this is for the safety of your baby and you.

I am disabled, is this ok?

I will happily provide services to clients with disabilities, but these must be discussed beforehand.

What should I wear?

The simple answer is, whatever you feel comfortable in! Yes, its easiest if you are naked, you will be covered during your treatment, however if you feel uncomfortable, underwear or swimwear is fine, these can be moved/removed if and when you feel comfortable. If you wish to wear underwear or swimwear, please be advised that these can sometimes be damaged or stained by massage oils.

Do you play music during the massage?

I can play some soothing spa music, or am happy for you to play some relaxing music of your own

Is there anything I need?

You will need towels, ideally two large bath sheets and a couple of smaller towels.

I will bring oils and some battery operated candles but you are welcome to use your own candles to get the atmosphere right

How do I book and pay?

Fill in the contact form, and I will reach out to you to discuss your requirements, once this has happened I will advise you how to pay your deposit.

I need to cancel my appointment.

Deposits are non-refundable, you can re-arrange a booking with at least 24 hours notice.

Do you use toys?

I am happy to use toys that you provide, for hygiene reasons I do not provide toys.

I have had a bad experience in the past

Let's talk! Fill in the contact form and we can discuss your requirements and concerns, the initial call is for you as much as it is for me. Yes, I need to understand you and what you are looking for, but you must feel heard, understood, respected, safe, and that you will be in good hands, if you don't feel this way, then I will advise against booking.

What type of massage oil do you use?

I use unscented almond oil, grape seed oil, or am also happy to use oils provided by you. Please make any allergies or sensitivities known at the earliest stage, if you are allergic to nuts, I will ensure I leave the almond oil at home.

Can I, my partner or friend film the session for personal use?

I do not allow filming or photography on your devices, I kindly ask that your phones are switched off or on do not disturb mode at least, and out of sight for the duration of the treatment, this is for my safety and your enjoyment, there is nothing more off-putting than a phone that keeps pinging and vibrating when you are trying to relax.

I am happy to film and take pictures on my device, and these will be shared with you after the session - See the special offer tab.

Can I drink or take drugs?

A drink or two is fine to help you relax, however I will not proceed if I feel you are under the influence of any drugs or excessive alcohol.